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Whether you have a new puppy or a senior dog, their lives get temporarily shaken up when you have house guests over during the holiday season. Having people over and cooking for everyone is stressful enough. You don’t want to also have to apologize for your dog’s behavior. Here are a few tips to help your dog deal with visitors during the holiday season.
Set Your Dog Up for Success
The best way to prevent your dog from getting into trouble is to give them the support to make good decisions. If you know your dog likes to “counter surf” or steal things off the counter, for example, make sure there aren’t tempting food items left within reach and that your dog isn’t left alone in the kitchen.
A good rule for life with puppies is “supervise or confine.” If you can’t fully supervise your puppy to prevent unwanted behavior, you should safely confine them in a puppy-safe area of the home or a crate. During the holidays — or any busy time — this is a good rule to keep in mind, no matter your dog’s age. If you know your dog gets overly excited about visitors, it can be helpful to keep your dog leashed during the festivities.
Use high-value treats to reward your dog for appropriate calm behavior like sitting or settling into a down. It can help to make someone in the family responsible for working with the dog—especially if you have a young puppy or are trying to retrain new manners around engaging with visitors. Be sure to praise and reward your dog for the behavior you want.
Help Your Dog to Make Good Decisions
Some dogs are very excited about visitors entering the home, while others are nervous or uncomfortable. This can be due to a lack of socialization and individual personality, as well as breed traits. For example, some breeds developed as guardians may initially be wary of visitors.
For puppies and dogs that came home during the pandemic, guests coming into the house can be particularly disorienting. If you know that your dog gets overly excited when the doorbell rings, or when people come into the house for the first time, it’s important to help them make good decisions. One option is to put your dog in a crate or another room before the doorbell rings. Then, you can bring them out after the initial excitement has calmed down.
Give Your Dog Private Space
If your dog starts getting overwhelmed or stressed by visitors, it can be helpful to take a break. Bring them outside for a walk, or for some relaxation time in a private area of the home. Short and successful training sessions with visitors can help your dog make positive associations with guests coming into your home.
As you’re preparing for the holidays, consider setting up space in your home to allow your dog to get away from the stress of any festivities. Put your dog’s crate in an out-of-the-way place that’s accessible to them but away from visitors. Alternatively, you can designate a room in your house for your dog to relax in if they feel overstimulated. Consider using a dog gate to secure them inside the room for breaks. Give them a stuffed KONG or other safe chew toy, which will provide mental stimulation and help them relax.
Advocate For Your Dog
If your dog is nervous about meeting people, don’t force them to interact with visitors. Instead, put them in a quiet and safe place in another part of the house during your visitors’ stay. Many people love dogs but they don’t always engage safely or appropriately with them. It can be helpful to prepare your friends and family for what your dog needs to be successful.
Be your dog’s best advocate and explain to your guests how you would like them to engage, whether that means ignoring your dog completely, or giving your dog treats in exchange for calm behavior like “sit.” If you have children visiting the home, make sure that kids aren’t allowed to interact with your dog unsupervised, and that they’re taught appropriate ways to pet or play with your dog.