Dear Bailey,

My sister and I both want a dog, but our mom doesn't think we will take care of one. So, how do I convince her that we are responsible enough to get a dog? I hope that you can answer this. We're in desperate need of an answer.

Thanks,
Sarah and Helen

I receive a lot of letters from kids with the same question about adding a dog to their family and convincing their parents they will help take care of the dog.

A dog is a big responsibility. He needs to be fed, groomed, and walked daily. A dog also needs plenty of love and attention. Make sure you and your sister have time between chores and homework to care for a dog. There are also things your parents must do for the dog, such as take it to the veterinarian for annual health checkups and pay for it’s food and vet bills.

One way to show your parents you may be ready to get a dog is to show them that you understand what it takes to be a responsible dog owner. Begin by researching the different breeds of purebred dogs — there are more than 150 AKC-recognized breeds! — and collect information about the breeds you are interested in. Also you can complete the AKC lesson plan worksheets “Is Your Family Ready for a Dog” and “Cost of Owning a Dog” to show your parents that you are aware of the costs involved in owning a dog.

You and your family should then sit down and discuss breed preferences, schedules, care, responsibilities, and costs, among other things before deciding to add a new four-legged friend to the household.

Here are some questions to start your discussion:

1. Do we want a puppy or an adult dog?
2. How big do we want our dog to grow?
3. Do we want a dog with a coat that requires extensive grooming, or more of a wash-and-wear dog?
4. Do we want an easily trained dog or a more independent breed?
5. Who in our family will be responsible for walking and feeding the dog?
6. Do we want an active breed or a more sedate breed?
7. How much time does our family have for a new pet?
8. Do we have ample space for a dog?

Every member of the family should sit down together and talk about all the qualities and characteristics they want in a dog. Use the My Ideal Dog worksheet to determine the traits you like in a dog. Try to consider all the new responsibilities dog ownership involves.

If your family decides to get a dog, remember that you are making a long-lasting commitment. (Beagles like me can live for up to 12 years or more!) Make sure you choose a breed that will fit and adapt to your family’s lifestyle now and for years to come. And be sure to buy an AKC-registrable dog from a responsible breeder.

Taking care of a dog is a serious responsibility and should not be entered into lightly.

For more information about choosing a breed for your family research more on the AKC web site and read about choosing the right dog for you.

Good luck!

Bailey the Beagle